Many people go their entire lives without ever truly knowing love, and there are also many who seem to not appreciate what they do actually have. Is it possible that you, too, have your priorities wrong in your relationship? Are you too busy looking for things to dislike instead of thinking about the things you will miss when he is gone?
The problem with emotional and psychological abuse is that we don't always know it's “abuse.” No matter how many magazine articles we read or stories we hear on the subject, people in abusive relationships often don't see their own relationships as being abusive. We know it's abuse when someone puts their hands on you in anger; that's a given. Someone who loves you will not hit you or otherwise physically hurt you. What's not always obvious to us, though, is that there are quite a few emotional things we shouldn't let our partners say or do. It's subtle and not always obvious, but it's still there. There are probably many more, but here are a few abusive things a good partner won't say or do to you. I'm using the masculine pronouns because, while I am well aware that women can be abusive too, the most common forms are from men to women.
Heartbreak is inevitable. Even though you can't avoid it, you can avoid getting hurt way too often. You just have to adjust your way of thinking about relationships, and remember to always keep one eye open. Here are some of the simplest ways to bulletproof your heart so that you don't end up getting hurt one too many times:
There are places where men like to be touched in a sexy and unexpectedly sensual way. This is not a list of ways to bring a #man to orgasm, nor is it a list built to help enhance orgasm. These are unexpected places on men where they will enjoy being touched by a close and intimate #partner.
Sex is an intimate act, but it's not the only activity that will bring you closer to your partner.
That's why you shouldn't rush into sex. If you're not ready for it, there are plenty of other forms of #affection that are equally as sweet.
Here are a few things that you can do to strengthen your bond with your #partner without removing your clothes:
Many people go their entire lives without ever truly knowing love, and there are also many who seem to not appreciate what they do actually have. Is it possible that you too, have your priorities wrong in your relationship? Are you too busy looking for things to dislike instead of thinking about the #things you will miss when he is gone?
If you want your relationship to have the best #chance at a future, then you need to resist these temptations. Some of them happen in the beginning of a relationship and some of them are for all throughout your relationship. Don’t worry if you’ve done some of these in the past. Every day is a new day and you can have a fresh start!
Why date a #man when you could just date yourself? Instead of going out on dates every weekend, you should spend some quality time alone every week. That way, you'll learn to find happiness without having to rely on another person. Even if you find a partner in the meantime, you'll have a stronger #relationship with them, because you won't always need them by your side. Here are a few of the best techniques for dating yourself before you date someone else:
By Gloria KYEREMEH, Accra